social media ke Danish war be-assar kyun hotay hain ?

Social media ab hamari zindagi ki haqeeqat hai. hum social media ki sar garmion se barah-e-raast jurey hue hain. jo log social media par nahi hain woh bhi kisi nah kisi tareeqay se social media ki khabron aur tahreeron se waaqif ho jatay hain. social media aik open source media hai, har koi jo chahay likh, bol aur dekha sakta hai. lekin maloomat ke is ambaar mein kaam ki baatein khhaal khhaal hi nazar aati hain. .. social media par be assar aur naam Nihaad danishwaron ke baray mein aik Istallah wujood mein aayi hai... social media ke Baisway (22) grade ke Danishwer... chaliye jan-nay ki koshish karte hain ke aisay Musallah ya Danishwer itnay be assar kyun hain?

parvar-digaar ne jinhein tehreer ya taqreer ka hunar ataa farmaya hai inhen yeh mehez tafreeh taba aur Hiz uthany ke liye hi nahi diya gaya balkay is ataa ke peechay QASSAM-e-AZAL ne zaroor koi nah koi musbat maqsad rakha hota hai. har Nemat apne sath aik zimmadaari ka baar liye hue hoti hai. haqooq ke sath sath faraiz bhi hoty hain. Haq is ka hai jo farz bhi ada karta hai jo faraiz se ghaflat bart-ta hai woh haqooq bhi talabb karne mein haq bajanib nahi hota.  
social media ki aamad ne tehreer o taqreer ki dimensions badal di hain. har insaan jo status type kar sakta hai woh social media ka likhari hai.  Har shakhs jo mobile camera istemaal karna jaanta hai woh social media journalist ya star honay ka daawa kar sakta hai. sara khel views, subscribers, followers aur shares ya tetweets ka hai. yeh tamam cheeze aap ki maqboliat barha kar aap ko raton raat aik aam aadmi se star bhi bana sakti hain isi terhan dekhte hi dekhte star se aam aadmi ya aam aadmi se bhi neechay badnaam aadmi mein badal sakti hain. maqboliat ke mayaraat aur pemanay badal chuke hain.

Duur kahan jana, apni hi misaal arz kiye deta hon.   pichlle dinon mein ne  barhti hui garmi ke asraat o tadaruk ke hawalay se alif yaar par aik tehreer likhi thi. is tehreer ka sab se ziyada assar Kamraan Khalid sahib, jo mere nihayat mukhlis aur kher khuwa dost hain, pay huwa. unhon ne is tehreer ko parhnay ke baad garmi se bachao ki baqaida tableegh shuru kar di.
Mein is haqeeqat ka Official Daiee honay ke bawajood khud ahteyati tadabeer par apni susti ki wajah se amal pera honay mein nakaam raha. nateejatan aksar sir dard mein mubtala rehne laga. Kamraan sahib ke baar baar tawajah dilao notice ke bawajood jab mein ne un ki baat par kaan nah dhara to unhon ne' barray gharon' ka rukh kya aur baba jee se meri shikayat kar di.  
baba jee ne meri nalaiqi par barri mohabbat se meri sarznish ki. mujhe qoul o feal mein tazaad kam karne ki targheeb di. un ki saari guftagu mein se chand hikmat bharay jumlay mere zehen mein chipak se gaye. farmaya:

"social media ke reforms jo likhte aur boltay hain agar woh sab karne mein bhi lagen to hamaray aksar masail hal ho jayen"
unhon ne mazeed farmaya:
"agar likhnay wala apni baat par khud bhi Ba-Amal ho to baat ki asar-pazeeri barh jati hai kyunkay jis baat par aap khud amal karte hain is par aap ka yaqeen pukhta ho jata hai. pukhta yaqeen se likhi hui tehreer taqdeer ban jati hai"
Mein ne jab social media par dekhte hi dekhte maqboliat ke zeenay charhne walay aur phir isi taizi ke sath wapsi ka safar tay karne walay chand afraad ke urooj o zawaal ki daastaa’n par ghhor kya to un mein se aksar mein be amli qader mushtarik nazar aayi. aap chand kitaaben parh kar ya lecture sun kar  unhay naqal karne se logon par aik reformer honay ka ta-assur to qaim kar saktay hain lekin usay der tak barqarar nahi rakh satke.  agar aap un tamam nasihton par khud amal pera nahi hotay to aap lafzon ke beopari to ban satke hain achay nahi ban satke. social media par achi achi baatein karne walon ki tehreer o taqreer mein isi liye woh jaan nahi rahi ke inhen likhnay ya karne walay kisi terhan ki islaah ke liye  nahin likhte balkay chand views, likes ya  retweets ke liye likhte hain. khalil Al Rehman Qamar sahib ki woh mashhoor nazam yaad aa rahi hai:

meri shohrat mera danka mere aizaz ka sun kar
 Kabhi yeh nah samajh lena mein chauty ka likhari hon
 Mein business mean hon janaan
mein chhota sa beopari hoon
meri Arhatt pay barson se  
jo mehangay daam bikta hai  
woh tairay gham ka soda hai
Teri ankhen tairay ansoo teri chahat tairay jazbay  
yahan shelfoon pay rakhay hain
wohi to mein ne baiche hain
Tumhari baat chhar jaye to baatein beech deta hoon
zaroorat kuch ziyada ho to yaden beech deta hoon
tumahray naam ke sadqy bohat paisa kamaya hai
naii gaari kharidi hai naya bangla banaya hai  
magar kyun mujh ko lagta hai  
mere andar ka beopari tumhe ko beech aaya hai
mein business mean hon Janaan
mein business mean hon Janaan

khalil Al Rehman Qamar ki yeh nazam unheen ki zabani suneney ke liye is par click kiijiye
har cheez baraye farokht nahi hoti. .. kayi cheeze barri anmol hoti hain. .. jaisay kayi lamhay. .. kayi jazbay. .. kayi baatein. .. kayi yaden. .. inhen anmol hi rehna chahiye. .. ke kabhi kabhi agar anmol cheez ko jab mol laganay ke paish kar diya jaye. .. to woh be mol ho kar reh jati hai. .. hum woh ghatay ka soda karne walay beopari hain jo cheezon ke mol badhaane ke chakkar mein inhen be mol kar dete hain. . .
hum social media reformers ka yahi almiya hai!